Beyond the Break Up

Beyond the Break-up

wilma allen

So…Are you ready to build your life beyond the break-up and create financial freedom and independence for you and your children?

Working with separated and divorced women beyond their break-up helping them to start or grow a business to create financial freedom and independence once and for all

Has your relationship of years been over for a while now?
Are the months of anguish, uncertainty, negotiating and legal wrangling done with?

The realisation that you are on your own has already hit home
- and yet it’s still scary

What’s most important, right now, is for you to realise that EVERYTHING in your life is a choice.

It’s quite likely that you don’t have all the answers..…yet how would having an open door to all the support, shortcuts and secrets of someone who was once where you are now, who has been through it, understands the myriad layers and who has undeniably and genuinely been the architect of her life beyond her own break-up, how helpful would that be in guiding you away from what you are facing right now? How liberating would it feel to be guided towards creating a fabulous future and flourishing into financial freedom?

I’m guessing that, like I did, you spend some time wondering why, now that life’s settled down after your break-up, you’re not happier, more emotionally balanced – more ‘normal’. It’s easy to feel forgotten once all the drama has died down and day to day life is hard work, a grind sometimes, isn’t it?

And, although your emotional state may not always be stretched to breaking point every day now, my guess is you will be only too familiar with many of these feelings:

the continuing see-saw of your emotions – the lack of calm and consistency
your lack of peace of mind and contentment
your indecision about your decisions – leading to disillusionment
the overbearing responsibility of managing all of the finances, all the decisions, which keeps you frazzled, distracted and stressed
your lack of confidence as a new single parent
you become emotionally drained making you muddled, forgetful and scatty
your inability to deal comfortably and powerfully with your Ex leaves you at times lonely, fearful and powerless
your inability to have made peace with your past, yet
your lack of confidence in taking on the challenges that could make the difference

Wow! That’s a lot of lack ….and it’s all simmering away inside you – a dangerous cocktail of emotions.

And the price you are paying to continue feeling this way is affecting your family’s stability, stopping you achieving the satisfaction and pride of flourishing into that financial freedom and independence – and if you are already a business owner then I bet your business is already showing signs that it is suffering too.

So look at this way, as a business owner, or someone who can see that running your own business is your ticket to total financial freedom and independence, then you are now in an unusually powerful position to make significant choices that will make permanent, positive changes to your life. I just want to say that I do understand that you may not yet find it easy to see how you will achieve this – and nor did I. It’s important for you to trust and choose.

I understand that sometimes you are so overloaded that you just want to run away – but where would you go – and, anyway, it would all still be there when you return, wouldn’t it?

The only way forward is to find a better way forward

Whatever choices you make at this point today, you can be sure they will have a dramatic impact on whether your self-confidence, your finances, your health, your relationship with your ex, your relationships with your children, flourish – or not.

Imagine…. how would your life change if you knew you could easily learn how to build the life of your choice beyond the break-up and create financial freedom and independence?

With my support as a highly trained coach, you are able to experience the results of making those empowering choices right away.

Through a variety of coaching programmes at Beyond The Break-Up we put our energy into 3 principal areas to achieve the results our clients are looking for:

Making Peace With Your Past – this does what it says on the tin - Being sympathetically guided through the essential processes of making peace with your past, including experiencing a complete and successful emotional clean-break
Forging Your Future – guiding you to powerfully manage the transition from divorce and forging your future into a life of self-reliance, and renewed self-confidence enabling you to become a powerful and confident individual, self-supporting and self-reliant
Creating your own financial freedom and independence by starting or growing your business – allowing you to be in command, content and at peace with yourself and your life, possibly for the first time

So, you have the opportunity right now to begin to create a life that, in the past, you would never have thought possible. You have the opportunity of creating something new and better than it has ever been before – when you make the choice.

If you are one of the many, many women still in a place of confusion, powerlessness and overwhelm, then I can help you, I have been in your shoes, and I know what you’re going through.

It’ll take balls and guts and courage to choose and to change – and I believe so deeply in each of my clients that I know it is within your grasp inside you.

You will know that you are now ready for the next step, the step of choosing to design the life you want, because you are feeling strong enough to take control now and, with help, to make those powerful choices that are going to make the difference

What if, by making this choice, the difference would mean getting any of these?

Experiencing and living with true peace of mind and clarity – How many people do you know, anywhere, who can truly say that they have mastered this? How much would you pay to have lasting peace of mind, clarity and completeness?
Making powerful decisions easily and effortlessly that will shape you and your family’s future. Learning what your decision making process is and knowing that you can trust it. Mastering this skill alone will fill you with newfound confidence and belief in yourself
Managing the responsibility of your finances with a cool, clear head– imagine that
You as a competent, relaxed and powerful single parent – Seeing your children grow as you grow, deepening the relationship with them and being their mainstay in life
Comfortably and powerfully dealing with your Ex – being able to communicate and negotiate with them in a laid-back and powerful way, while maintaining important boundaries – this skill alone will revolutionize your life and it is one that very few people ever master
Creating powerful emotional balance – Learning how to harness the power that is inherently inside you. This will allow you to live each day in command of who you are and how you are. Bringing a deep understanding of the power of what being at peace with yourself really means
Returning you to a resourceful state – where you know that you can tackle anything and succeed. Being aware that you have developed a belief in yourself so deep that you know whatever you choose to tackle you will find a way to succeed with ease and grace

What if you took the chance right now to be more than mediocre and exceed others’ expectations of how life after divorce, beyond the break-up, really can be?

You ARE the architect of this new life – you have the raw materials – and it puts you in an uncommonly powerful position

In order to do this you need to heal from the inside so that you can create what you are choosing on the outside – and I can help you to do that.

What I am showing you is a way out and a way forward which wasn’t immediately available to me at the time – and it is available to you – I can teach you the shortcuts – once you’ve made the choice.

As a solo parent, I also really appreciate how tough it can be to get the balance right when you’re running your own business and juggling family commitments alongside your work.

Being financially dependent on your Ex can put you, potentially, in a very disempowering position. And it doesn’t need to be the only reason for you to create your financial freedom and independence beyond the break-up.

Was your business already making a contribution to the family income, but now it has to produce a whole lot more in order for you to keep body and soul together?
Does the idea of being able to choose how you work around the children appeal?
Do you like the idea of having total control over how much you earn and how you do it?
Perhaps you have an Ex who has no intention of supporting you financially anyway, and you’ve got to do something about it

If you are someone who likes the thought of being financially independent and autonomous

If you would like the comfort of knowing that you are totally free to choose how you earn and spend your money – then starting or re-energising your business could well be for you.

However, this is most definitely is not for everyone. You need to be ready to shift your level of achievement onto a whole new plane which means you will want to start thinking about making changes on the inside – to get what you want on the outside, you have to have it right on the inside – without exception.

What if the time is right for you right now to evolve, expand, transform and invest in yourself, your life and your business – then you are in the perfect place to explore more deeply how you can achieve this.